Sex Date With a Stranger Booked for Friday

So I have another sexdate booked for Friday with a 45 year old man who looks quite tasty. I asked him to start with an erotic massage which he is more than keen to do. He will come over to my house and we'll see how we get on. On his listing he said he is warm, passionate, tender and likes to have a woman crawling up the curtains with desire. Hmmm, we'll see.

Horny on a Monday Night

So the gorgeous guy I saw on Friday is going away tomorrow until after Christmas and then I will be going away for a week so it will be a while before we can meet up. Well worth waiting for but in the meantime?

Two new men contacted me today, a 29 year old and a 45 year old. They both look quite good so I've written to see if either wants to meet up on Friday daytime.

I am amazed how many men go on the sex dating sites looking for a fuck yet don't pay for the upgrade so cannot send emails. They are relying on the woman sending them an email. You'd think it would be worth paying the US$30, wouldn't you? Cheapskates.

Likewise all the couples in my country looking for a woman to make up a threesome are all standard members so again, no go.

I've just had an online chat with an ex-boyfriend. We might share some bodily warmth one night next week if we can find a time when we are both available. "Friends with Benefits" ie having sex with a friend without being in a relationship. At least we know what to expect from each other.

I'm a little frustrated now so I'll crawl under the covers with my rabbit sextoy which can always be sure to bring me with an incredible orgasm.

I Advertised Online for a Birthday Fuck

I wrote previously that I had advertised online for a birthday fuck. I chose a 35 year old, dark hair, blue eyes and he said we would start with an erotic massage.

He was absolutely gorgeous, striking blue eyes. Somewhat nervous to start with but a bottle of bubbly helped to relax us both.

He prepared my bedroom draping towels over the bed and placing tealights all around the room. Sheer magic. He complimented me on my lingerie before slowly removing it whilst kissing me all over. Then he picked me up and laid me on the bed. He started massaging the front of my legs and when he reached my pussy, he started feeling and stroking me, occasionally a finger exploring me inside.

Then he asked me to turn over onto my front and used one of my vibrators on my pussy. By now I was really hot and turned on. I reached over and took his cock into my mouth, teasing him with my tongue and alternately letting him thrust deep into my mouth while he moaned. I am very good at blow jobs. He carried on with a lovely back massage then said he wanted to fuck my butt.

He turned me on to my back, applied some lube and slipped his hard cock into my butt. At the same time, he used my rabbit sex toy in my pussy and on my clit. So exciting and it was not long before I had the most incredible orgasm.

He wanted to go back into my mouth now and asked if he could come on my chin. Of course, that is so exciting. He said I was so hot and I enjoyed it. I licked him off. He tasted good.

We took a shower together then just cuddled and chatted. What a blissful couple of hours.

Follow Michele's adventures of Sex In My 40s at http://sexinmy40s.blogspot.com

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I've Found a Good Looking Guy for My Birthday Fuck

It's my birthday on Friday and I wanted a good time so I wrote on my online profile that I was looking for a birthday fuck. I had several offers and chose one 35 year old with dark hair, blue eyes, 6' tall and I think he will do very nicely. He wrote that he is planning soft light, candles, massage oils and a slow erotic massage. Sounds great. He wanted to know what my interests and off limits are so I gave him some idea with the corny wrap-up "we'll see what comes up."

I am really looking forward to Friday!

Delicious Masturbation with My Dildo

Although I had sex yesterday, I came too quickly so was not really satisfied. I had difficulty falling asleep so decided to masturbate. I used my purple marble effect dildo, first enjoying the vibration al over my pussy area then plunged it into my pussy and brought myself through clitoral stimulation. Delicious!

I bought the dildo from Pabo, a good online supplier of sex toys, clothing, porn - anything fun to do with sex.






They have a wide selection at very reasonable prices. You can order a catalogue which will arrive in discreet packaging and order online, by post or over the phone.

You can also download porn, either for 24 H use or buy it permanently. There is an exciting collection.

Don't forget the sexy lingerie and sexual role play clothing:

Where Do I Find Sex Partners?

Funnily enough, the thought of a date and a one night stand doesn't do it for me. I don't want to tell him about my life, my work, my kids etc then go back to his place for a bonk. I prefer to choose a stranger, be open about what I want, meet up, pleasure each other then walk away.

So for me, I prefer online sites for sex with a stranger, either Horny Matches or Adult Friend Finder. Both are good.



You can set up a profile and say as much or as little as you want. You can even be someone else, add photos, add your fantasies. Search and send winks or emails. Even have some cyber sex.

Of course, if you do find a good lover online, it doesn't have to be for just the once. You might find a few regulars. All the sex without the disadvantages of a steady relationship.

My First Time of Sex with a Stranger

I had sex with a stranger for the first time today. We met in a small day hotel where you pay for a minimum of six hours. It looked sleazy outside but the rooms were quite pleasant. We had a choice of rooms and he chose a luxury one with a four-poster bed, a shower and TV/DVD, not that we had much time as he had been delayed in traffic and had to get home to his wife.

He was rather nervous but I did my best to relax him and make him feel comfortable. He said that young girls do not know how to handle an older man (he's 47) but I did very well. He had told me that his nipples were very sensitive and indeed they were. I used my tongue to titilate his nipples and he got very excited. I moved down and sucked and teased his cock expertly.

He had a wonderful technique for licking my pussy and brought me to orgasm very quickly. He then climbed on top of me, put on a condom in a rather clumsy manner and thrust into me. Nice but not wonderful. Then he asked me to sit on top of him. I could barely feel him inside me. I pulled off to move in to another position and found his condom had come off inside me so i fished it out with a finger.

He had lost his orgasm so my mouth came into play again to make him hard. Well hard enough but not really hard. He is out of practice!

This time I unrolled the condom onto him making sure it covered the whole length and turned my back asking him to take me from behind. Better but his shaven pubic hair chafed me somewhat and the condom caused a build-up of air so my pussy started 'farting? How off-putting. Condoms also start chafing after a while, even though he had chosen a super sensitive one.

I had had enough by now so was glad when he came quietly and not as dramatically as I like. He pulled out, removed the condom and went for a shower. Then we dressed and parted.

The whole experience satisfied me sexually but I did not really enjoy it. I enjoyed sprawling on the bed and feeling sexy for him but he did not really do it for me.

Plus the whole experience made me miss the wonderful sex with my ex-boyfriend. During our first time, we had moved into six different positions and it felt wonderful for both of us. I wonder if I'll ever find such a good lover again?

I'm Having Sex Today With a Stranger

Today I'm meeting a man for the first time. We've been chatting for a while but I stopped when I was in my last relationship. He's married but hasn't had sex for a year. Why is it that single women are looking for sex and married women don't realise how lucky they are?

He's really nervous about whether he'll be able to perform but I told him to relax and let me take over. He loves licking pussy, preferably shaved, so I've creamed all around my pussy but left the hair on top because otherwise I find that the skin chafes against my jeans.

I asked him what colour lingerie he prefers. He answered black and pink so I have black lingerie with fuschia pink bows plus black stockings and a black suspender belt with a pink flower. I'm sure he'll love it.

We're meeting in a day hotel. Bit sleazy but it adds to the naughtiness for me of sex with a stranger.

We have been chatting about sex with a bisexual prostitute, maybe an Asian girl. He knows where to go so hopefully that will be arranged soon. He also has a fantasy about sucking a man's cock. I'd like to watch that and if both men want me afterwards, I'm up for it. One cock in my mouth, the other pounding my pussy. Maybe DP: one in my pussy, one in my ass. Anything is possible but I'm not in to bondage or anything painful.

I'll let you know how we get on with our first encounter.

Sex in My 40s - What an Opportunity!

I'm a single mum in her 40's, divorced after far too many years with the wrong man who thought sex was just poking me for a few seconds before he came. I was resigned to the fact that my sex life was over...until I threw him out and found out it's true: sex does begin at 40.

I had a great lover for nearly a year who really opened the sexual floodgates for me. Since then a man who had erectile dysfunction and only wanted to use the missionary position (oh, no). Recently I was prepared to settle down with one guy for the rest of my life, cooking, cleaning, ironing, staying in with him every night. It was great to start with but he changed his mind and left. I was sad for a while but then I realised that now I am free to do what I want, when I want and most importantly, with whom I want.

I have fantasies about sex with a stranger, sex with a woman, sex with two men....or three and so I'm going to write about my experiences which I hope inspire you and turn you on to possibilities.

Let's have fun.